UNAPPROPRIATED CONCERNS AND FEARS that ruins relationships
Fear is like sugar
At first we like it, it is sweet, intoxicating. Later, he can dominate, suffocate, destroy us. However, if we try to exclude it from the diet, you will find it almost everywhere, in everything. If we cannot control it, we do not have the strength to fight it, it harms not only ourselves, but also the people around us. What are we most concerned about in a relationship?
Fear of abandonment
The most common relationship-related fear is fear of abandonment. Leaving no one’s taste is a painful experience, but if we enter a new relationship with fear that the relationship will fail again, that our partner will leave us, we will eventually summon it ourselves. A certain amount of concern is needed, but it should not interfere with our self-confidence.
Fears of the “ghosts” of the past
Every man has his past, his good and bad experience, knowledge. If there are still active negative voices from the past in our minds, we allow them to influence our presence, never to move really forward.
Concerns about exposing the interior
Many people are afraid to show their true self to another person. By living with someone, we automatically let him into our intimacy, into zones that we don’t show to other people. If the fears and fears lead so far that we prefer the stones, we reshape, we do everything so that our partner does not know our true self, such a relationship is completely useless.
Fear of reality
Living in reality, not flying in the clouds, but not crawling on the ground requires courage. Everybody is sometimes afraid to look the truth in the eyes and it is better to function in a lie. And yet we want to succeed, to live in a quality, functioning relationship, we need to gain this courage and live in reality.
Let us work to ensure that fear does not destroy what we can have, what life has to offer.
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